Family Law Playbook — Texas Edition · Step 10 of 12

How to Serve Court Papers in Texas

Citation, personal service, and the Monday-after-20-days deadline for responding to a Texas family law petition

What is a citation?

In Texas, the official document that notifies the respondent of a pending lawsuit is called a citation — not a summons as in many other states. The citation is issued by the district clerk and is served along with a copy of the petition. It tells the respondent that they have been sued and must respond by a specific deadline or risk a default judgment.

This guide is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice. Every case is different. If you can afford an attorney, we encourage you to hire one.

Methods of service

Personal service

The preferred method is personal service — a licensed process server, constable, or sheriff physically delivers the citation and petition to the respondent. Under Texas Rule of Civil Procedure 106, personal service is completed when the documents are physically handed to the respondent or left with anyone over 16 at their home or place of business.

Certified mail

Service by certified mail, return receipt requested, is also available. The district clerk typically handles this. Service is complete when the respondent signs the return receipt card.

Substituted service

If the respondent is evading service, you can ask the court for an order authorizing substituted service — leaving the documents with someone at the respondent's home, posting them on the door, or in some cases serving by email or social media with court approval.

Service by publication

If the respondent's whereabouts are genuinely unknown, you may request service by publication — publishing the citation in a newspaper of general circulation. This requires an affidavit showing due diligence in attempting to locate the respondent.

The response deadline

Under Texas Rule of Civil Procedure 99, the respondent must file a written answer by 10:00 AM on the Monday following the expiration of 20 days after the date service is complete. This is sometimes called the “Monday after 20 days” rule.

For example: if you are served on March 1, the 20-day period expires on March 21. The deadline to file an answer is 10:00 AM on Monday, March 24 (the next Monday after March 21).

Missing the deadline means default

If the respondent does not file an answer by the deadline, the petitioner can apply for a default judgment. In a family law case, this means the court can grant all of the relief requested in the petition without hearing from the respondent. If you have been served, file your answer immediately.

Waiver of service

If both parties are cooperating, the respondent can sign a Waiver of Service — a document acknowledging receipt of the petition and waiving the formal service requirement. The waiver must be notarized and filed with the court. It cannot be signed before the petition is filed.

Waiver of service for agreed cases

If you and the other parent are working toward an agreed order, a waiver of service avoids the cost of a process server and the adversarial feel of formal service. Most family law attorneys will request a waiver of service before paying for a process server.

Proof of service

After the respondent is served, the process server completes a return of service — a sworn statement describing when, where, and how service was completed. The return of service is filed with the district clerk. Keep a copy for your records. Without proof of service filed with the court, the default deadline does not begin to run.

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