Family Law Playbook — Texas Edition · Step 12 of 12
What to Expect at a Family Law Hearing in Texas
Preparation checklist and courtroom walkthrough for temporary orders hearings and final trials in Texas District Court
Types of hearings in Texas family law
There are two primary types of hearings you may face in a Texas family law case:
- Temporary orders hearing — An early hearing, usually within the first few weeks of filing, to set interim rules while the case is pending. The judge decides who lives in the home, who has possession of the children, and how much support to pay temporarily.
- Final trial — The full hearing where the judge (or jury, if timely requested) hears all the evidence and enters permanent orders. This can last anywhere from a few hours to several days depending on complexity.
Temporary orders matter
Before the hearing: preparation checklist
- Confirm the hearing date, time, and courtroom with the court coordinator at least two days in advance
- Organize your exhibits: label, number, and copy in sets of three (yourself, opposing party, court)
- Prepare a brief written outline of the points you intend to make — a checklist, not a script
- Identify and notify any witnesses who will testify and confirm they will be present
- Review the current court order (if any) so you know exactly what you are asking to change and why
- Review the other party's filed documents so you know their arguments in advance
- Dress professionally and plan to arrive 15–20 minutes early
The day of the hearing
- Check in with the court coordinator — Let them know you are present. In some courts, cases are called in order of check-in.
- Exchange exhibit lists with opposing counsel — Give opposing counsel a copy of your exhibit list and copies of all exhibits you intend to introduce before the hearing starts.
- Attempt to resolve issues before going before the judge — Judges appreciate when parties narrow the issues. Even on the morning of the hearing, agree to what you can.
- Stand when the judge enters — Remain standing until the bailiff tells everyone to be seated or the judge sits.
- Address the judge as “Your Honor” — Always refer to the judge as “Your Honor.” Do not interrupt the judge, opposing counsel, or a witness.
Presenting your evidence
To introduce a document into evidence in Texas:
- Hand the document to the court reporter and state: “I am offering what has been marked as Petitioner's Exhibit 1.”
- Ask the witness to identify the exhibit: “Can you tell me what this document is?”
- Lay the foundation for authenticity (e.g., “Is this a true and accurate copy of the text messages you received?”)
- State: “Your Honor, I offer Petitioner's Exhibit 1 into evidence.”
- Wait for the court's ruling. If the judge says “admitted,” you may proceed to use the exhibit.
Common mistakes to avoid
What not to do in the courtroom
- Do not bring children to the courthouse unless the judge has ordered the child to be present
- Do not refer to the other parent by insulting nicknames or make personal attacks — stick to the facts
- Do not interrupt or argue with the judge, even if you disagree with a ruling
- Do not bring documents you have not already given to the other party — this is called “sandbagging” and the judge may exclude them
- Do not speak about the case in the hallway within earshot of the other party or their witnesses
After the hearing
After the judge rules, one party (usually the prevailing party) is responsible for drafting the written order. The draft must be submitted to opposing counsel for review and then to the judge for signature. The order is not final and enforceable until the judge signs it. Follow up with the court coordinator if the signed order does not arrive within a reasonable time.
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