Family Court Playbook · Step 12 of 12

What to Expect at a Family Court Hearing

Preparation checklist, courtroom walkthrough, and practical tips for your California family law hearing

What happens at a hearing

A family law hearing in California is shorter and less formal than you might expect. Most hearings on Requests for Order last 10 to 20 minutes. The judge has already read your paperwork — they're looking for clarification, not a full presentation.

Before the hearing

Make sure you have served the other party at least 16 court days before the hearing (Family Code § 215). File your proof of service. Make extra copies of everything — one for the judge, one for the other party, one for yourself. Check your county's local rules for any additional requirements.

Arrive early

Plan to arrive at least 30 minutes before your hearing time. You'll need to find parking, go through security, locate your courtroom, and check in with the clerk.

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Before the hearing

Your preparation checklist

Copies for judge

Copies for other party

Original declaration

Proof of service

Photo ID

Evidence and exhibits

What to bring

Filed copies of your RFO and declaration, proof of service, income and expense declaration, photo ID, any evidence or exhibits referenced in your declaration, a pen and notepad.

Organize your documents

Use a binder with tabs or clearly labeled folders. The judge may ask you to reference a specific document — you don't want to fumble through loose papers.

How to address the judge

Address the judge as “Your Honor.” Stand when speaking. Be brief and factual. Don't interrupt the other party. Don't argue with the judge. If you disagree with something the other party says, wait for your turn to respond.

After the hearing

The judge may rule from the bench (right then) or take the matter under submission (decide later). If orders are made, one party is usually asked to prepare a written order for the judge to sign. Make sure you understand what was ordered before leaving the courtroom.

Need help preparing?

Our guided tool helps you prepare a declaration in your own words and fills out your court paperwork.

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A family law attorney will always have the biggest impact on your case. If you can afford one, we encourage you to hire one.

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